Relativity of happiness

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Vriddha Jageshwar Temple, Almora, Uttarakhand
 

Last two days have been overwhelming. So much natural beauty to soak in. The human nature in me asked why can I not be here forever? Why do I need to go back to the hustle bustle of a city life where everyone seems to be running non-stop to reach nowhere? Will I be more happy with a simple existence on the hills than a mechanical life in a fast moving city?

The temple priest of Vriddha Jageshwar Mandir started a conversation with me after the puja and when he got to know where I'm from and what I do he asked if I can find jobs for kids from the mountains in the city. I told him there are opportunities for everyone.

This small interchange made me reflect.
For me happiness means the beauty and peace of the hills. For him happiness means the opportunities in the city.
And both of us are right.

The hard truth is that what you get easily is taken for granted and loses its charm. The key then is to be happy and make full use of where you are and what you have at the moment.

PS. Originally published on September 27, 2017 on Facebook.

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